Ethical Wills
by Matthew Tuttle (Write for us!)
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Growing up I learned the lessons that most boys learn from their fathers: how to throw and catch a ball, how to tie a tie, the birds and bees, etc. When he died I came to the realization that
all he left behind were memories and "stuff", his lifetime of experiences was gone forever. The mistakes he made and what he learned from them, what he would have done differently, what he did well, his values, his goals, his hopes for future generations, all lost forever. That wouldn't have been the case if he had drafted an Ethical Will. An Ethical Will is not a legal document. Rather than talking about distributing your financial aspects, you talk about what kind of personal legacy you would like to leave for your children and other important people in your life, and what you would want to be remembered for. Below is a list of questions to consider in designing an Ethical Will:
- How would you like to be remembered?
- What is your personal story?
- If you could do it all over again, would you make the same choices? Why or why not?
- What are your dreams, goals, successes, and failures?
- What are your hopes and dreams for future generations?
- Opening thoughts
- Values and beliefs
- Lessons and reflections about life
- Hopes for the future
- Forgiveness
- Requests
- Concluding thoughts
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